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Sylvia, 25 was soaring after her discovery of Judaism in Jerusalem a year ago. A new world of exciting possibilities opened up for her. She had never felt so happy in all her life. She had been searching for something real and authentic and now she was sure she found …

Stan 31 has battled depression since he was 14.  His parents were both highly successful in their careers and Stan often felt like he was in their way and had to keep his needs quiet so as not to bother them.  He painfully remembers several occasions where both parents were …

Here are three basic types of relational conversations: The Adversarial Conversation The adversarial couples fights, bickers, and attacks. Their communication style is to take a stand, stake out a position, and defend their territory. They exhaust themselves trying to convince each other to give in and come over to their …

Natasha was finding it harder and harder to control her anger with her two children, ages 6 and 8.  Particularly, she found herself yelling at her older daughter way too often and her husband had begun to point it out to her.  She was losing it and decided to take …

  Feelings are information.  In order to grow and become our best self, it is essential to listen and learn from them.  In order to grow, we must be emotionally honest with ourselves.  Here are eight ways that feelings help us grow in order to actualize our vast potential. Growing …

In Judaism, one of the most important character traits a person can acquire is being honest with one’s self. It is especially important to be honest about how we feel, particularly when we experience uncomfortable or unwanted feelings. Greg has been married for 15 years.  Over the last few years …

The one gift I would love to give to everyone is the gift of self-love.  Self-hate drains a person of his emotional energy.  He is constantly at war with himself and others.  Transforming self-hate into self-love is like taking a 100-pound weight off one’s shoulders.  One’s entire being feels lighter. …

Passover is the holiday of freedom. Freedom is the ability to expand and grow beyond one’s perceived limitations. In Hebrew, the word Egypt means “narrow.” Egypt was a place that limited human potential and enslaved the will. Freedom from one’s personal Egypt is the experience of expanding and moving beyond …

There are many questions that can expand our consciousness and transform our lives.  I would like to suggest the following for your consideration. What is the most important thing a human being can do? The power of this question lies in that it invites us to consider the big picture …

Josh and Ann are fighting because Josh saw Ann flirting with an “old friend.” Jerry and Laurie are fighting because Jerry is always on his phone Bill and Terry are fighting because Terry has had it with his drinking Abe and Sarah are fighting because they never can make ends …